My relationships help me communicate and achieve my goals. They are my support system and I am the same in return. I always reference this African proverb "it takes a village to raise a child." My parents have always had a positive impact in my life. They taught me life skills, gave me reality checks and constantly encouraged me to be the best. I also had my two grandmothers who helped support my parents when they needed a little extra help. With the majority of our family being in New York and our family living in Maryland it was hard to see them so the time we spent with them was precious and valuable. I've gained a better appreciation for my family over the past year when I relocated away from them with my infant son and husband. It was difficult for me to adapt to not having my family close to me but with them being such a strong support system they helped reassure me that this change was one of the many obstacles I'll overcome in life. It's because of this that I have such a great appreciation for my family and friends.
My husband while he travels for business on many occasions always makes it a point to let me know that he appreciates all that I do to keep the family functioning as a whole. My mother and father have always encouraged me to strive for anything I want to do in life. They have always been my cheerleaders. My father has always been my bodyguard and has come to my rescue even when I didn't realize I needed any help. As far as my sisters they have always been my diary. I've shared stories, cried, laughed, and played with and the memories we have shared still have been tattooed in our hearts. As far as my friends they have always been influential in various ways but I wouldn't take anyone of them for granted.
Maintaining these relationships has been increasingly harder considering I've moved so far away from them. When I come back in town I want to reach out to all of them but find myself stretched thin from pleasing everyone. Through communication and visiting home once a month I make the most of my time. Granted it is harder when I miss special events or they miss me they understand and support me. Understanding the importance of these relationships will help me in the early childhood field. I will be able to relate to families who have a support system and even share my stories with them. I'll be able to encourage families who are unsure of their role or how to support their children by using modeling techniques. Hopefully with my knowledge and access to resources I'll be able to give a child a "village" that will support them too.
My husband also travels for a living but has been my biggest supporter. He realized how important finishing my education was and makes great sacrifices for us. Keeping relationships important is how they continue to grow. I love now that with a click of a button you can be face to face with someone even far away. I agree that it does take a "village" to raise a child. You will be a great support to the children who are involved with you.
ReplyDeleteHey Jazmine,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed reading your post! You are so right when you mentioned the support you have will only enable you to reach and encourage families and children you serve....and Yes, you will be able to give those children the "village" to support them.
-Mary Cox